Living alone as a millennial

Moving out

My life is about to change. After all the waiting, the time has come. I’m finally moving out of my parent’s house. Now I live alone. I don’t have a closet for my clothes, no coffee table or furniture for the TV, but hey, it’s okay. I thought I was prepared. I took 2 weeks […]

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A new wonder, Bali

My Dears, I hope to catch you well? I am. Let me tell you about one of the most amazing places I’ve been! Bali, Indonesia. Two weeks I’ve visited this wonderful piece of island. Mind you it was a hardship to get there. Almost 20h of travel! Let me assure you, that is a really, […]

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My Dears, Even if you are living under a rock, most of you have heard of the hashtag metoo. Started by Alyssa Milano ‘ if all women who were ever, or are the victim of sexual harassment put #metoo in their status, we can give people an idea of how big of an issue this […]

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Spring time again


Hello my friends, it has been awhile. Everything has just been so busy with work lately that I haven’t had one second to myself it would seem, but I have good news. It’s spring time. Goodbye cranky winter, hello positivity. Don’t you just love spring? It has a promise to it. An awakening of something […]

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New year, new me, same bullshit

Brangel New Year

First of all let me wish you all a very happy New Year. May you get everything your heart desires and even more because we have to keep dreaming, don’t we? What are your expectations for the New Year? You can also call them resolutions but I prefer to say expectations. It has less pressure […]

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That time of year

Have you ever been through a traumatic experience? Something really bad that you thought you couldn’t recover from? I have recently. I was in a really dark place full of self-loathing and self-hate. I won’t go into all the details but if you have experienced something similar you will understand. My answer to this horrific […]

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Should you be completely honest with your friends?

Quote truth

Honesty lasts longer is what people say, but is it actually true? I sometimes wonder about this. I consider myself as honest as I can be but some situations ask for tact. When my mother asks me where I’ve been, I can’t tell her that I just came back from having sex with a guy […]

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Sex on the first date

Is it acceptable to have sex on the first date? Or even further, to go on a date just to have sex? I know that the world has evolved and we do whatever we want with whomever we want. But still…Don’t you have a little voice in your head saying it’s wrong? How do you […]

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Man–woman friendships, do they really exist?

Do you believe in boy-girl friendships? A straight male and female who are the best of friends. I think it is possible. I’m living proof. I’ve known my best friend for ten years now. We met in high school and had an instant connection. From the outside you would never pair us together. We are […]

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Something wicked this way comes

I was 11 years old when I first discovered Harry Potter. A guy in my class told me it was too difficult for me, so I shouldn’t start reading the books. You can start guessing what my reaction was. In less than a week I had read Harry Potter and the Philosopher’s Stone. It was […]

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